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“What we love we shall grow to resemble.” — Bernard of Clairvaux
There comes a day when we realize that looking for external solutions to our problems just won’t work. How vain has been the time and energy spent looking for the perfect mate or partner, the perfect job, the perfect life. So instead, we start to search for internal solutions; we begin to change ourselves.
To change ourselves is a different process from controlling ourselves, which cannot be done. But when we start to give up the control, the rigidity, the perfectionism, the self-will, we begin to change. This change seems like a miracle because it is! It’s an incredible gift from the Universe, who loves us beyond our imagining. The more we change our focus from the external to the internal, the more we’re able to accept ourselves. We become humble with each small choice to accept ourselves as we are. We become whole as we let that choice be enough for today.
Are you living within yourself or outside of yourself today? To keep the focus within requires self-acceptance.
Posted on May 12, 2011, in Addiction, Life, Life's Lessons, Mental Health, Opinions, Personal Growth, Personality, Relationships, Self Discovery, Self-improvement, Spirituality and tagged Bernard of Clairvaux, Change, Change myself, External Solutions to Problems, Humility, Internal Solutions to Problems, Looking for the perfect, Perfect Job, Perfect Life, Perfect Mate, Perfect Partner, Perfectionism, Self-acceptance, To Become Whole, Vain, What we love we shall grow to resemble. Bookmark the permalink. 11 Comments.