Regaining Lost Pride and Lost Hope
“And nothing to look backward to with pride and nothing to look forward to with hope.” — Robert Frost
I am growing from, and getting over my sense of lost pride and lost hope. Often, my life seemed poisoned at the very source. I can’t remember a time of innocence, joy, or confidence in myself or in my relationships with others. I was sexually abused when I was a young child. I know the pain from that abuse and the stress associated with “keeping the secret” made me feel unsure of my boundaries and re framed my view of the future to one of anxiety and dread. But things are in fact beginning to change, as I change.
To go forward, I have had to admit to powerlessness. That has been hard for me to do. I must admit that I am powerless to undo the hurt and abuse in my past. And I have learned that I can’t “go it alone”. I have been alone way too long! I have my “new and improved” Self, the Universe, and my close friends to trust and confer with.
I am overcoming my past and turning toward the future with growing hope and trust. And then the present, like the New Year, becomes filled with promise. For those that know me well, also know that this “re framing” was difficult and can share with me the joy in my ability to change my way of thinking.
Posted on December 28, 2010, in Blogging, Boundaries, Change, Childhood, Family, Friends, Friendship, Hope, Intimacy, Love, Opinions, Personal Growth, Positive Thinking, Relationships, Spirituality and tagged Abuse, Abused, Blogging, Boundaries, Change, Childhood, Family, Family of Choice, Friends, Friendship, Hope, How you look at it, Intimacy, Love, Opinions, Overcoming the past, Personal Growth, Positive Thinking, powerless, Pride, Purpose for Life, reframe, Regaining lost hope, Regaining lost pride, Relationships, Sexual abuse, Spirituality. Bookmark the permalink. 3 Comments.