What Makes Our Kids Distrustful and Angry?
“A child miseducated is a child lost.” – John F. Kennedy
So much money is spent on bombs and missiles and so little on education. With so many children in crowded classrooms and old buildings, with ill-trained and ill-paid teachers, it seems easier to destroy life than to nurture and strengthen it. I’ve thought a lot lately about what it was like for me as a child.
“Education” means leading out from … away from ignorance, defenselessness, anxiety and fear. In my childhood, I was educated in an environment which included neglect and abuse.
Childhood especially should be a time of growth and hope. When memories of childhood are tarnished, bitterness and resentment follow, and these in turn can lead to erratic or addictive behavior. I know what it was like to be pushed away, exploited, even seduced and abused. I hated it and it made me distrustful and angry.
Now that I’m on a path of personal growth and allowing more spirituality into my life, I feel the power of “education” as I learn to leave behind the ignorance, fear and pain of my childhood. I have come to feel the joy of nurturing myself and caring deeply for those around me. I want to be concerned with education as a way of overcoming ignorance, mistrust , isolation and fear.
- The Innocence of Children (christophersmark.wordpress.com)
- Addiction during the holidays: Recovered or not, it’s important to be prepared (psychologytoday.com)
- Morty Lefkoe: Does Anger Make You Uncomfortable? (huffingtonpost.com)
- Dealing with Guilt: Part Two (socyberty.com)
Posted on December 24, 2010, in About Me, Adversity, Childhood, Childhood Memories, Dysfunction, Life, Opinions, Personal Growth, Purpose of Life, Relationships, Self concept, Self Discovery, Self-forgiveness, Self-improvement, Spirituality and tagged Abuse, Abused, Angry, Anxiety, bitterness, Child, Child abuse, Childhood, Children Youth and Family, defenselessness, distrustful, education, exploitation, Fear, ignorance, John F. Kennedy, nurturing, Parent, Personal Growth, Resentment, seduced, Sexual abuse, Spirituality. Bookmark the permalink. Leave a comment.