Words Can Hurt
Never forget what a man says to you when he is angry.” — Henry Ward Beecher
Do we speak the truth when we’re angry? I know that I am often quick to say, “I really didn’t mean it,” and I may even try to make amends for my thoughtlessness. But people, especially children, rarely forget what was said to them in anger.
Angry words hurt and mark people; especially when trussed up with dishonesty and distortions. Even if our parents didn’t really mean it, those angry voices and words are still with us. We often come to believe that our parents didn’t love us or respect us; otherwise, how could they have said those angry things that still hurt? We still may believe this way, or “make up in our minds” that the source of the verbal onslaught of ugly may hold some sliver of truth.
We will always have moments of anger. But we can think twice before letting anger, dishonesty, and distortions dictate our speech. Words can hurt and people remember.
Posted on September 14, 2010, in About Me, Life, Personal Growth, Self-improvement, Spirituality and tagged Anger, Anger Management, Emotion, Henry Ward Beecher, hurtful actions, hurtful acts, Hurtful words, Life, Men, Name calling, People, Personal Growth, Philosophy, Relationships, Truth When Angry, Words hurt. Bookmark the permalink. 2 Comments.