Archive for the ‘New Age’ Category

To Learn to Love Ourselves

“There is luxury in self-reproach.  When we blame ourselves, we feel no one else has a right to blame us.”  — Oscar Wilde
 
Just as we don’t have the right to judge someone else, we don’t have the right to judge
ourselves.  Our unhealthy script in the past was that when we did something we felt [...]

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A Little Help from Our Friends

“And when I see you happy, well, it sets my heart free.  I’d like to be as good a friend to you as you are to me.”  — Joni Mitchell
Friends are one of the greatest gifts and they come as a result of a life that’s sane and manageable.  It takes time and energy to [...]

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Death in the Abstract

“It’s not that I’m afraid to die, I just don’t want to be there when it happens.”   — Woody Allen
Even after a recent near death experience, I tend to think of death in the abstract, as a fact rather than a reality.  I know that everything passes and that we are bound to die, but [...]

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The Joy and Pain of Loving

 

“The main motive for ‘non-attachment’ is a desire to escape from the pain of living, and above all from love, which, sexual or non-sexual is hard work.”  — George Orwell
In popular romances, love is often presented as a bed of roses – without the thorns.  We may also have the idea that loving is always [...]

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Feeling is the Inner Life; Expression is the Outer Life

   
I’ve realized that there’s a difference between my ability to feel, my ability to express my feelings, and my ability to let go.  I know there are many painful emotions I learned to suppress when I was young, particularly anger or sadness.  Other emotions might be difficult to feel because they are connected to past pain. 
Yet [...]

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Where I Start and Where I End

“It is an old an ironic habit of human beings to run faster when we have lost our way.”  — Rollo May

Our boundaries are both inside and outside ourselves.  No one can set them for us; we can only set them.  For many of us, boundaries are often unfamiliar.  We may wonder, What are they?  [...]

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My Daily Tarot Card [January 27, 2009]

Giving me some direction for my day, I enjoy sharing my more poignant tarot readings that I do that I do on a daily basis. 

The Ace of Swords card suggests that my power today lies in cause and effect. With great power comes great responsibility. Do the right thing or state the obvious and the [...]

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Daily Tarot Card for Gemini

 

The Strength card affirms that my alter ego today is the seductive beast of my Animagus, whose superpower is to master self-control to tame fears or impulses to prove of what stuff I’m made. I boldly go… but a willful heart is part of my secret identity. My infinite fortitude is seen by what I [...]

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My Tarot Card for December 25, 2008 ~ The 5 of Pentacles

 
The Five of Pentacles card suggests that my power today lies in defiance. I am willing to reject the sure thing or accept excommunication to try to make it on my own, rather than endure the status quo or submit to conditions that assume I am invisible — in this, I have nothing to lose. I accept responsibility [...]

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Part of a World that Prizes Love and Community

“The problem of the individual is not clarified by stressing the antagonism between the individual and society, but by stressing their mutual reinforcement.” -Ruth Benedict
Romanticism was a widespread movement in both its origins and influence which began in Germany and England in the 1770s.  Romanticism had swept through Europe By the 1820’s. It traveled quickly [...]

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