Honesty

 be-honest

Honesty: The open quality of truthfulness, straightforward sincerity.

An honest person can be trusted to be straightforward and sincere.  Telling the truth and being sincere help to develop honesty.

I received this “Honesty” figurine from a very special person, at a time when I was facing a decimated life, a result of my seemingly endless, perhaps even sociopathic ease with being a dishonest person.  Through these lessons, I have become the man of integrity I am today.  I am an honest person.  It has been said that those that chose to remove me from their life due to my dishonesty in the past, now wish I could have been as honest then, as I am now.  There is a feeling of disappointment and loss.  Life would be so different today, had I chosen a path of honesty.

I can’t imagine how I could have done it before; being so incredibly dishonest in so many areas of my life.  It all seems so heavy to think back upon that time in my life.  My mother always said that I was a very bad liar.  She proved right on that point.  It was my inability to maintain and organize my lies; what I told to which person, and so on.  I made many mistakes, and my “cover” was blown.

This process of becoming an honest person in my journey of personal growth has been one that I shall always look upon with much joy.  It hasn’t been easy, but the life I have as a result, is easier.  I am not perfect.  I am an imperfect human trying to learn my way through this existence and lifetime.  I make mistakes; lie about something here or there, as anyone does.  In my awareness, I make every attempt to correct any misinformation and soon after spend time taking a look at the reason behind the lie.  Often, the lie comes from my fear of a certain reaction.  Or, the lie may stem from my own feelings of inadequacy.

- Be honest.  Admit mistakes.  Avoid cheating others -

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